>>18141954If you see things with her staying long-term, then yeah, of course she can be on par with you one day, just don't make it a priority. Patience is a must in relationships and seeing in a large scale can lead to maturity, so imagine being challenged by her around the Ninth Gen.
Also, be honest about how you're happy for yourself that she's finding ways to share more with you. If you share selfishness, it's not as selfish, at least "less wrong".
