>>33115256Thanks anon. I figured I jumped the shark by asking for a number too early since most times when a girl isn't interested they won't even respond to the first message. Though other times I've had girls give me a number and we started chatting the same night. It's a turbulent experience of finding the right one in the wild (more like SMT's demon negotiations than just finding a poke with the right ability and nature) and the mind games of when to respond and ask for more details, but I'm in a comfortable spot by myself right now so maybe some other time.