>>47245976You are messing with something that is hardwired into us, sexuality. The vast majority of men are naturally attracted to women, not men. You are not owed sex just because you have transitioned, and as hurtful as rejection gets, you just have to accept it as a part of life. Rejection is something EVERYONE has to deal with in sex and romance. You just have to deal with it for different reasons than most.
Personally, I wish I could be attracted to trans women. But sexual reassignment is far from perfect, and may never be perfect. They will still have masculine features, masculine scents, and (maybe subtly) masculine voices. And that doesn't even get into the sheer madness that is artificial genitals. I hope for the sake of every trans person that someday that shit gets perfected, that somehow we get some Star Trek tier medicine going where none of this shit will ever matter again. Because as it stands, it'll forever be a hurdle.
It's not even anything against trans. I just don't like masculine traits, at least not in terms of someone's body. I feel the same sensation of disgust at sleeping with a man that I do sleeping with a trans woman. I am still willing to treat one like a woman in every other respect, but sexuality is a threshold that just can't be crossed for me, and it's the same way for many men.
On the flipside, attitudes like yours make it extremely uncomfortable whenever I detect any affections from someone trans. I don't want to be mean or cruel, and I'd rather let them down gently, but knowing how terribly you take rejection, I just don't see a way to do that. And I don't want to feel like an asshole. And it's happened on more than one occasion, just sayin'.
