>>39773947>>39774016The first one, presumably, so Sabrina in this case. That's what I took the crown one to mean anyway.
Also, just because you have a harem, doesn't mean you need to be with them all, all the time. You shouldn't even be with the main one all the time. Two people are two people and are always two people. Being together with any other person too much is as bad for your relationship as not enough.
