>>19003653>eager to please>low self esteem>end up hurting themselvesThis is what I don't like. I don't like to "validate" people. The guy I'm with right now- I know he'd be perfectly fine on his own, I don't constantly have to reassure him, and generally we can be two adults in a partnership.
It's unfortunate, but I'd honestly dump N right on his ass. Ain't nobody got time for that.