>>43554428Some grass and poison types can do similar things to psychic types if they have the right spores and toxins, most obviously, salazzle can do almost everything a psychic type can, provided you're not a femanon. As a fire type they can also be very comfortably warm in bed.
You'd also probably like most the common grass type suspects. Most flowering grass types like liligant and bellossom need a lot of care, but may be what you are looking for. The hardier grass types like tsareena and serperior tend to be more dominant, if that what you'd prefer. I'd also like to take a moment to mention that roselia is effectively wearing a naked apron at all times.
Ghost types could also be interesting with possession play. In terms of what they can do to control you, they are generally stronger then psychic types. Unfortunately, there are very few that look feminine, your best options are mismagius, froslass, and gourgeist.
For the psychic type, you've probably already thought about the obvious ones like gardevoir and hatterne. There are a lot more good options, but nothing that stands out to me for matching the interests you have described.