>>34980186we literally have a pokespe chapter about this. Norman is a traditional Japanese manly man who was mad his son wanted to be a ballerina.
there are a lot more examples in fiction, like Kanji from Persona 4 who regardless of what dumb westerners and his VA told you Kanji problem was that he thought that because he liked girly stuff, he had no right to consider himself a real man and confused it with being a closeted, flamboyant homosexual too when he may as well just be bi and your normal everyday guy.
