>>12217948Such a place does not exist unless you get in on a small group, and good luck finding one of those. I cannot tell you how, since it was luck that I found such a place myself. There is no method, really. Just use your own judgment. It will take time, and a lot of disappointment, but perhaps eventually, you can find it. (No, I am not bringing you to where I go. I will not force that on you. I find it better for you to decide what is good for you or not)