Just whichever design I like more. There's usually one I vastly prefer over the other(Only exception I can think of is FRLG in which I'm barely drawn to either. Picked female first though for some reason.) If I get both versions, I use the other one in the second version I play. It also helps if I have a name in mind and for what gender. I don't like reusing names or using my own name. I like to feel like a different character in each playthrough.
X and Y are making this a bit difficult because the designs aren't set, but I've had it in mind to name my character Twyla since I saw the initial designs, so I'm probably going lady.
>>12675289Not even slightly. I'm a pretty feminine dude though. I'm only made uncomfortable about that when I'm around overtly masculine dudes cuz' it just makes me feel small and dainty.
I'm mostly hetero btw. Dunno why I'm talking about this.