>>13324417(people have been agreeing with me too much today, I feel special)
But seriously dude, that is the key. I didn't have a gf during hs (my class were 28 people, it felt weird to date) so i didn't care.
Senior year, I joined the school soccer team, and worked out. I felt so much better about myself, I went from a size L shirt, to an M and I could justify to wear semi-tight clothes.
I started to date various girls on fall semester, and on college I got my first serious gf.