>>13762128Nature DOES work in binary, but things usually are a mix of both extremes. Have you seen the symbol of tao? It's a bit like that: light in the shadow, shadow in the light. As for the rest, keep reading.
>>13762137Dohoho, good point. Do you even realize "masculine behavior", "feminine behavior", or whatever, means absolutely nothing? Not even what is in our head means anything. Identifying oneself by a sex, gender or whatever is, at the very end, meaningless. But the sole fact you were born male, or female, somewhere, means you gotta learn to accept certain things. In the very end, your life experience is what matters the most. Maybe in your next life you will keep your gender, or maybe change it. It all depends if you gotta still keep learning the same things as a man or woman, or if you gotta shift directions.
My theory is that people who cannot accept their birth sex means they were the opposite sex the last life or the previous one (quite recently), while my gf thinks it might be because each person doesn't know how to deal with issues. Consider this: if you fall in love with a person of the opposite gender, it means you also have to learn to cope with issues as both cannot understand fully each other. If, in the other hand, you fall in love with someone of the same sex, it means you already understand the other person's point of view.
