>>13950868katniss is only good with her bow and her survival skills (both earned by hunting to feed her family, not by natural gift). she's VERY impulsive, not exceptionally smart (in the political sense), nor charismatic, and she isn't really loved for who she is (except for her family and few friends) but only used as a tool for what she symbolizes
as for the 2 boys thing, she really has other, more pressing matters at hand for the most part of the story. if anything, they seem to care the most, while she'd rather wait for other stuff to resolve first before thinking about love
>it has love in it so it must be romantic!>it has death in it, so it must be edgy!>it has girls in it, so it must be girly!