>>15402855The jealous, obsessive types are NOT people you would fuck, much less capable of acquiring desirable personality traits if they are needy people to be boot. They just define themselves as incomplete without you then build a fucking dependence of their entire existence on your person being happy at their side.
What if you don't return their feelings? What if you're not smitten with them like before? Well prepare to deal with a world of shit. You express interest in something can't have or something that takes attention away from them? Time to lash out against those things. It's a threat to the time they could be spending with you and instead you made other plans. Now she'll make it seem like it's your fucking fault she has a shitty day because you weren't there to offer her a shoulder to cry on or you weren't there to act as her magic feather of confidence to stand up for herself.
If you get a stalker, don't make plans to meet them. Don't think it'll turn out to be cute and budding. Fuck, don't even stop to feel sorry for them. They are not people that know the meaning of sacrifice in life, they only think they should be given dues because others have been shit to them and for some godforsaken reason, you served as a shining beacon that kept them from killing themselves or any others but they can't be fucked to make an effort to better themselves as people.
It's not a life you want.