>>16136733I'm not, generally, but the social grooming part served to make my teen years extremely frustrating.
>>16136757Yeah, I can see that. A sort of security, but it also depends on another person that you ultimately don't control, so whether or not it becomes a flaming crater come down to how alike you are. It's not ultimately bad, maybe, people do like it, but I only ever tend to hear about the drama, so that might be a bias.
It is really irritating, actually. Most people seem to think that I was abused (wasn't) or just need someone to screw with enough and I'll get "fixed" somehow.
