>>18534143Dude, you can be a solitary person by nature, and that's perfectly fine- the problem is that people convince themselves that there's something wrong with them and avoid bringing themselves to their full potential because they don't think anything of themselves.
If you sit around ruminating on how awkward you are, that rumination will be what makes you awkward. You can't own it or accept it if you're just going to mope about it.
Like- if you avoid talking to someone you like just because you're stuck thinking "I'm too awkward, I don't have a chance, I'll mess everything up." you're doing yourself a massive disservice.
And if you think you're lonely all the time, you will distance yourself from people who probably would have enjoyed your company.
