How do you people play in this community?

Whenever I start a new match with someone I always find them disconnect when things don't go their way.

If I stop some bullshit setup they're pulling they disconnect.

If I pull out a mon I'm given during randoms that they don't like they disconnect.

If at any part I show some signs of beating them they disconnect.

Games typically go with either like so:
1) I lose the match after playing from beginning to end. Could have played poorly or they played well. It's fine.
2) We have a very close match and end up playing on some luck base end of a speed tie or hax. Usually these are very fun.
3) I KO 1-2 mons and then they quit after calling me a faggot. This happens about every other battle.

Are all Pokemon players this autistic?
Showdown thread I guess.