>>27264095Bro I had a girl when I was your age. We were convinced we were madly in love even though we started dating because "we're friends and we're lonely, we might as well be lonely together". All of our friends hated our relationship because it skeeved them out, and they thought I wasn't ready to deal with her baggage and she wasn't stable enough to be in a relationship. We totally thought it was some Romeo and Juliet shit going on. We had plans, we were going to make it, all that shit. Girl had major upbringing problems with an abusive mom that made her feel like the only thing that could make her an actual person is if she had a man dicking her, and after one major fight with her mom, she called her job, quit, and decided she was going to move in with me at my college, expecting me to drop everything, break a lease, and support her in an apartment while finishing up school. She also wanted to get married right away and become a housewife and have kids. We hadn't even had sex at that point. That shit couldn't fly, we spent a week trying to figure out how to fix things, and I broke up with her, though since she saw it coming she pre-empted it by walking out on me. She then latched on to a mutual friend and has burned through about 6 relationships, including some high school kids.
I cared about her, and as a friend I still do, but she's not a part of my life anymore and I'm a lot happier with my current place in life than I would be dealing with her baggage when she refused to deal with it herself.
Plus I ended up realizing I'm gay, so...When you're in love, you ignore the warning signs because it's either something you can fix or it's not REALLY a problem.
Bro, you're in a burning house. It's crumbling around you, and no amount of work is going to fix it. You gotta rebuild or move.
