>>27934781>almostNo, it is. A broken heart can heal, and it can be good for you in the long run. As one of my exes once put it: "All marriages end in either death or divorce." That's not necessarily a bad thing. You have good times with someone, you learn from them, and then you can grow as a result of conflict that ends the relationship.
However, if you just...don't understand that you should be sad...if you don't understand that there is any emotional significance to your bond with someone, then there's no way for you to learn. You don't possess the understanding in order to grow as a result of the experience, and so you just end up stunted, unable to move on, and unable to ever really connect with anyone.
