>>30113152This. Since most of the games are mainly targeted towards the male audience, we never get to see how things would change if you were actually the girl.
We only have hints of this in sidequests like the Ferriswheel in BW/B2W2 Yancy/Curtis in B2W2. SM seemed like it was from a male point of view. Literally the only things girls got were a few "hints" here and there with Ilima, and to a lesser extent Gladion. Even Hau was all over Lillie instead of the female PC.
We could assume some interactions would have gone differently if they weren't lazy and actually changed the dialogue. There are plenty of things that don't make sense if you play as a girl in this game.