>>30359344Maybe I can better explain it
Woman are care takers. They want a strong man that will take care of them, but they also want to tend to him/the children/the home. Cave man goes and hunts, comes back home scratched up missing a limb or two, cave wife tends to him.
I think it fills some base biological purpose. Like it feels good for a man to come inside a woman or progress in his career, or accomplish some other big task, or take care of his wife...He's filling his "purpose."
I think the hurt/comfort thing is that for women.