>>31490977Hey, guy who's talked on feedist community, back on laptop now.
I mean, I CAN say this or that 'in fairness'. I've had pleasant chats with many big gals over the years and all, sure, of course. But in the 'community' at least, I noticed the trend they all inevitably leave it because the level of crazy gets to them and they don't like it or want to become it. Leaving you with the 'porn star' deal we're speaking of: diva-ish and entitled. That's become the absolute normal type of woman you'll see in the kink's social gathering spots. How many times did I get left a number or kik or e-mail by some girl who's spoken to me pleasantly but wants to leave this or that site because a batch of grown-ass women are acting catty again and they don't want to interact with that kind of group when they were looking for body or kink positivity? Too many times to count.
It says a lot that many of the most acceptive and decent-minded folk who were cool with my love of fatties had never been in the 'community'. Just normal people in regular life who don't give a shit what gets you off.
And man, go for chub or lite-fat, it's all good. I just feel bad for the dudes who genuinely prefer fat gals versus fit ones. They're fighting a losing battle finding someone they can fully click with.