>>33022266What does "purity" have to do with sexuality, though. I've never understood that. There are literally only two ways that it can be perceived,
A.) You want to be the one to defile something so that you can put your flag in it. I guess I can understand this being some way if gratifying a conquerer's Gene
B.) You want to be assured that you will be your partner's only experience so that they have nothing to compare it to, this ensures you that they won't be disappointed if you're not enough for them. This seems like it would just benefit the jealous or self-conscious types.
I guess what I'm taking away from this is while I am a man with simple desires and needs, other people build an entire scenario around their fantasies, and that's just alien to me. I don't have that tendency, but I guess I can understand how it would be apealing to harbor and please those sort of desires.
