>>35115911Unironically this.
Most women are insecure as a result of the societal pressures exerted on them.
Those with submissive personalities tend to actualize this insecurity by either running away from things, creating manipulative scenarios which entrap other people with them, or else seizing an opportunity to take any form of dominance, regardless of the long term consequences, or if it is a safe, smart thing to do. Women that drown their children to get one over on their husbands, sluts that drop their boyfriends for more wealthy lays, and women that get knocked up, then marry, then divorce men for alimony all fit this category.
Women with more dominant personalities tend to actualize their insecurities by producing deeper and more trusting relationships, by allowing themselves to become part of their lives so long as they are under their thumb, and by ensuring that the things they touch turn out as well as possible.
Neither are ideal, but unless you find the mythical secure woman, a more dominant woman is almost always the superior option, unless you just want a one-night stand where you make a cuck of someone else for a change.