>>35825282I mean, I'm this board's major fatfag even amongst its other fatfags, so I'm obviously biased. But the actual answer? Take it easy, enjoy yourself and the gluttony, and see how you like it. If you do, keep going, if not, stop and discipline yourself. I'm all for you getting big from my own said biases but I enjoy actually being decent, which is why I say stop when you feel good or you hit your own sweet spot. Family and friends...yeah, that does suck, I won't say it doesn't, but at the same time if they don't actually mention it much or at at all - why fret, and all that, yanno.
Too bad we can't figure out how/where to talk elsewhere since it's rare to meet people into this who can actually hold convos, but also yeah, randos as you said. That's the curse of what we like.