>>36003239this is a meme, feminity is considered real fucking pansy
feminine boys are given a pass and expected to become manly guys when they become adults just like tomboy girls are expect to become proper ladies
peak masculine in Japan is being stoic, speak little and preferably show emotion as little as possible. You have probably seen ton of manly or cool protagonists than fall on this of heard of foreigner woman + Japanese man marriages sometimes fail because the woman can't even tell what the man wants or if she's even loved anymore.