>>36452471>Shaming for life choices and actions is goodSays who?
You know, you can criticize some choices, not really shaming, but since the choice that a person is making isn't illegal or doesn't harm anyone, judging it may be just useless and annoying.
>>36452564Of course it's nothing normal, but normal things may be boring for someone which tries something else to enjoy.
The Kinks or fetishes are mostly paraphilias or comes from those. So they are more like threated as "tastes" than "something not normal". Of course they're mental illness, but they're not risky. It's risky when you actually act some dangerous fetish in real life, but this depends all from the individual person.
Said that, you can more threat those like "different tastes". That's why you cannot really shame about kinkies, they're doing nothing wrong objectively. Being different from the "normal" isn't bad.
>If they get offended or feel ashamed, then it shows they are aware that what they like is taboo and not okay.That's wrong, it depends on individual perspective. You may think that's "not okay" just because they say you that even if it doesn't make sense saying something like this, it just make people more unsecure.
