>>40351674Will it offend you? Sure, but realize that what you say "offends others as well", some people dont like romance or feel that lust is their answer.
When you come out and invalidate
people for what they like, you become worse than them.
The thing is that you really do want to fit in. You said it yourself with how you want to make threads that people will like, and how you want
to upgrade your language. I know you've been doing your research.
Maybe start with accepting negativity itself.
Negativity and Positivity are two sides of the same coin. What I mean by that is, I dont know your situation maybe you had a terrible childhood so even something like "teasing" is a bit much for you.
For a lot of people, teasing others gets rid of stress, and allows people to truly communicate their feelings and not be a shill or a fake individual or stifled for freedom to say what you want.
We poke fun at each other, and tear at each other's egos but deep down we're all in the same shit.
Sorry for the long post, but I feel that this should be mentioned on how
you should go forward. Have courage to beat the you from yesterday.
