>>42157478Knowing that my future daughter could end up like that regardless of how I raise her genuinely scares me, actually. I don't know what the secret to having a kid that isn't a slut is, and it's frustrating. I've had friends' parents be super rigorous with their bringing up and yet their daughter still became completely used up by 14, as in "pregnancy scare and already did anal several times" kind of used up. Then another friend had a mother that was a turbo slut that had her at 22 after a long row of boyfriends, and was always "sex positive" but her daughter seeing where that life led her actually became a prude who refused to lose her virginity and have casual sex, she was genuinely disgusted by that idea, so she waited until the "right one" and lost it at 24. Now she's living a happy life with her husband who she's been with for 5 years.
So how do you get to raise a daughter like the latter? She's like a complete exception to the norm and I don't want a slut (I don't want a man-slut either), and if my 11 y/o dressed as Marnie does I think I'd have a heart attack.
