Honestly, think about it rationally.

You are catching, training, EV training and trading a Pokémon for even 18+ years solely so she can go and be held hostage by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little shiny - restarting the game a million times, making sure you bred her with good IVs, making sure she had the best moveset, battling with her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: she makes more money for the men that will eventually keep her in some digital hole.

Raised the perfect Pokémon? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random japanese man who had nothing to do with the way she was trained, who keeps her in his shitty cloud forever. He gets your 15 dollars every year. He sows the benefits of her kind and sweet affection that you developed while you raised your Pokémon. As a man who sends his Pokémon to Home, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a Pokémon for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck.

Think about it logically.