>>43296451Don't take it personally, she sounds genuine. This shows she cares about you, otherwise she wouldn't have replied at all or would've been colder about it. She is even open to talking about YOUR problems, someone who doesn't give a shit about you just doesn't say that, not even out of compromise.
She sounds genuinely stressed over her grandma so this is honestly not a good time for this. Reply with something sweet and well wishes for her grandma, don't act desperate or like an asshole about her not reciprocating. Be nice to her and if you're lucky in the future she'll remember how kind you were to her when she was going through a rough moment and that'll give her a better image of you.
She may not see you that way because you still have to get closer or build stronger bonds, but if you treat her right and show her that you're someone who cares and she can rely on, who knows, maybe those feelings develop. I have a friend who initially hated this guy she met because they clashed a lot but once they started actually talking and being nice to each other, they ended up warming up and eventually dated. They've been together for four years and a half already and still going strong, so yeah, never say never, but don't be a desperate asshole.