>>44549520Fucking this. I'm a tiny bit of a loser myself but that's entirely my own bad, one of my friends browses 4chan, games in most of his free time, plays DnD with us, and watches anime. But he's incredibly social, a much more popular guy than I am, has a steady income, and is incredibly in shape, it's clear he takes care of himself and is all around an amazingly likable guy. Even his mental health is on point, I've never once seen the man even approach depression, which only makes him all the more likable.
Anyone can be a chad, so to speak, it's not what you like or do in your free time, it's the way you do it. Are you an insufferable gatekeeping asshole who projects insecurities, or are you a genuinely good guy just doing what he likes with the people he likes doing it with.