>be me, normal adult human male
>move far away from a troublesome place with my children after my lifelong ma-, er, spouse passed away
>recently started working in a business building where other normal adult humans do business... things, just to earn pieces of green paper
>placed in the same strange cube as an adult human female with the same profession as mine
>didnt think much of her at first, but after some bonding and acts of camaraderie, I start to realize she may be the perfect foster mother of my brood

How would a normal adult human go on about acquiring a matrimonial partner? In my culture, the job of raising the children and hunt- err, I mean, “jobbing” so they can eat is interchangeable between partners of either sex, which is surprising to see the same view in human socie-, I mean, the society of the city I just moved to, more or less.

She sometimes jokes about my hairy hands and ears, but in an endearing manner, and she even plays with my long crimson mane, commenting on how soft and luxurious it feels. I am sure she is the perfect one, any assistance from other normal humans would be extremely appreciated.