>>45754805you don't. anyone weird with low self esteem likely doesn't love themselves, which means they can't and won't be able to handle a relationship. add those body proportions and the way society handles women and you've got a dysfunctional person that will never love you or anyone past their insecurity and self hatred.
if they had the power to overcome that, they wouldn't be hex maniac. at least not in the sexualized way that you want.