>>46921184>I want to fuck because it feels good and I want her to feel good tooHave you ever had a blowjob? Have you considered why women give them out even though it makes no sense reproductively and sometimes it's not even for the sake of giving pleasure (such as during rape)? Some women might tell you it's because they want to please the man, but the reason why is because puts the woman in a position of power over what the man feels, and women, for better or for worse, aren't usually very powerful in today's society.
So when you tell me you want some fictional creature to feel pleasure, I dont really know if it's that, or if you want to feel in a position of power over the something you feel you own. By its very nature sex is a power dynamic - there's a giver and taker, and in the 'male' or penetrator position you can choose what you give. The reason you likely enjoy that is because it heightens your self esteem, makes you feel you're worth something to something else even if its fictional, and thus gives you more power (fwiw it's easier to imagine this with a fictional being or a crush than, say, a pornstar). Also the reason why virgin men tend to feel bad about themselves because they feel they don't contribute anything and thus are weak.
I'm not insulting you, or telling you you're bad for feeling this, I'm merely stating to you probably why you feel the way you do.
>>46921203I dont think 'toxic masculinity' has anything to do with this discussion, nor I am a lefty. The anon asked a question and I just answered
