>>48228886Imma tell you a secret, anon: the secret for female orgasm is in your fingers or tongue, not in your penis. Most women can only reach orgasm through masturbation or oral sex (applied to her clitoris). When it comes to the penis, no matter how long your penis is, if you have no girth, you won't be able to properly please her. That is not to say they don't enjoy the feel of a penis filling her (and that's specially true during orgasm, since during that particular moment, her brain urges her to have something inside her vagina), but that can be circumvented through other means. The clitoris is shaped like a wishbone, and fingering is a very good way to gently separate the wings of the wishbone to produce powerful sensations. Oral sex should focus mostly on the visible tip that protrudes over the mount of venus, but ocasionally licking around the labia is neccesary to avoid monotony.
Now that's it for sex-ed. About your original question, you gotta see a therapist to help you with your self-esteem issues. There's nothing sexier than a person who is highly confident in him or herself. Being confident doesn't mean you'll be perfect, it just means that you are fully aware of what you are capable of andare not afraid of sharing that power with others. If there's something you can't do, joke about it or take it lightly but showing an intent to improve. If people can't accept you after that, then that means they weren't meant for you, and that's perfectly fine. You ain't no gold coin to be desired by everyone.
You should also hit the gym three times a week, probably. If you can't afford that, then maybe focus on cardio, jogging or simply walking around a park can be a very good excersise for begginers. There's also good apps in both iOS and Android appstores that coach with sets of excercises you can do at home with cheap tools or on your own.
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