>>48981349Happy birthday, don't get too stressed though. Just have a clear idea of what you are looking for (a lot of people just marry anyone because there's a bit of a nice friendship going on, but later on in the relationship they start to feel something's wrong, that's because they weren't looking for a balance of attributes. Focusing only on the physical is a surefire way to get yourself a divorce, but focusing only on the emotional can lead to that too. Just be sure you like the woman physically, emotionally and spiritually, and that she trusts you. Trust is the foundation of any strong relationships and love affairs are not unfamiliar with principle. All that talk about hitting the gym and having a job relies on the fact those things make others perceive you as more reliable and trustworthy. If you feel people look down on you as a manchild, then that's because they trust you as much as they'd trust in a kid.