>>49890541this is weak justification with little reflection and cognitive bias. having confused feelings about your sex is not a choice. the most accurate thing you can say, is its a mental disorder, but it's not a choice to suffer like that. maybe for some, but not for all. it's bad to have such bitter hatred for someone who frankly has a lot worse stuff going on than you possibly could. even if you have problems yourself, it's not excuse to act awful. that is a choice too.