>>54793275it's more akin to what the frogs call "hygiene of life"
get hobbies
>no, playing vidya, porn, memes and /pol/posting don't countWork on your style, not because it will get you bitches but as a way to learn about and express yourself
Get some self-confidence, not by learning to fake it but by building and getting things you can be proud of outside of a Vietnamese basket-weaving anonymous forum
make something out of your life weather that's getting a career, educating yourself in and/or outside of school
Try to get into some form of sport, individual sports are good for taking care of your health and building your body, team sports are a great boost to confidence and camaraderie
Try not to build your whole sense of self around pre-built identities, IE; red-pilled, incel, communist, coomer, "terminally online", stoner anti-stoner and so on
Also if you have some kind of mental disability, depression, ADHD or w/e, try to treat that aswell
You know, this kind of things
