>>55494854redpill is not about hating women, it's about understanding their nature. Not even as something inherently negative - they just have tendency to certain virtues and certain flaws much like men do. It just is. A different thing is that modern society decided to portray them as sanctified creatures that can do no wrong, and if they do, they always have an excuse.
Incels are simply those who couldn't handle the truth and entered joker mode. Of course, a subset of them thinks picking a young girl will make things easier. An increasing number of them is also picking the Chris Chan path and "transitioning" to see if they have a better shot as "women".
Others simply hated the game and became MGTOW -lots of incels cope by posing as MGTOW, but true MGTOWs exist, you won't notice because they aren't spewing shit on internet about women or red pill every five seconds-. The ones who actually decided to use this info to play the game -which was the original purpose of the men who developed these theories- and are banging left and right, are a tiny minority, and of course they are touching grass and not in fucking 4chan.