>>56420077my health has declined rapidly over the last few years, for various reasons. it's going to get worse, but i'll be healthy enough to live. i stay bedridden at times, and i know how demanding children are from experience when i was younger and healthier.
i don't want to bring a child into this world and be unable to care for them. ALL children deserve good mothers. shitty kids are the result of shitty parents, and shitty kids become shitty adults.
i do not want to have a child, and make them miserable because of my own issues. it's not fair to them. it wasn't fair to me when i had to deal with it, and i won't do it to anyone else. obviously i could push the kid off to a relative or whatever, but is that fair? i have crappy luck with men, and the area i live in has a lot of awful guys in general, so i don't have any dreams of finding a good father for a child in the first place. ultimately it just wouldn't work out.
also, people who hate children inherently are mentally ill. people who don't want to RAISE children have their reasons, but if someone just hates kids they have problems.
>>56420271ah, the duality of 4chan. either i'm not a woman, or i'm mentally handicapped because i am.
