>>56647750It seems to be a balancing act.
Like sure you have women who want wife beating abusive assholes, but most with this type of fetish seem to just want a dominant man who has her best interest at heart. They want to feel like they have no choice but to let him have his way with her.
Some pain, but never too much. Always the perfect amount of demanding and obsession. The male could have any woman, but only this particular woman makes him lose control.
This type of romance has been sterilized, however. Now everything has to be 100% consensual with no power dynamic at all. Otherwise the relationship is "toxic" and "abusive" and a bad influence on women.