>>56699152The second secret is that you can train your personality to become charismatic, this is outside of the mainstream sphere where everybody thinks that "being genuine is just bee urself", they think if you put effort towards anything then it's an "unauthentic lie".
Truth is, you can become charismatic as second nature and it will not be a lie, because it becomes part of you, and tha's an easy thing to do but most people can get over the "shame barrier", you need to accept that becoming better at social interactions is a skill like any other, like driving or swimming, and you do that with strangers (obviously you'll act different depending on the context of the encounter), it sounds stupid and that because IT IS, but people can't get over doing something stupid, people want to stay in the comfort zone, comfy and secure, outside is scary so they never grow. If you say fuck to comfort zone, you will grow, it's simply how the brain works.
