>>57381290It also doesn't help that ever since the rise of the mainstream internet and privacy dying in favor of data harvesting, the dating pool has widened far beyond your local community and now generally regards anyone and everyone within a wide radius, as it's much easier for men and women to seek out their respective desirables on a much more regular basis rather than settling for the breadcrumbs of the town they live in or having to barhop around neighboring towns and cities in hopes of lucking out on a good match by coincidence. So even if these guys DID improve their looks and personalities, score a good-paying job and even nail a fine home and real estate, it still won't be enough because most women are looking for #1 exclusively, as is natural of primal instincts guiding them towards the most successful mate.
The women who aren't doing that, of course, are the undesirables, and usually have mental illnesses that make them outright dangerous to court.
