>>581338141-According to Ray Blanchard (a prolific researcher), it is not unusual for non-pedophilic men to have some attraction to pubescents, it's only a problem if they significantly prefer non-adult women IRL more than adult women
2-This doesn't apply to straight up toddlercon, but it would apply to characters like Lillie: Hentai can exaggerate or highlight features men like in women such as neoteny, cuteness, petiteness, sexual purity, youth, etc. Characters like Lillie/Marnie are usually drawn flat but curvy and/or with a more mature waist-to-hip ratio, like Tatsumaki from OPM.
3-Pedophilia arises most often at puberty. Plus, a sexual orientation like homosexuality/pedophilia can't be changed through conditioning contrary to what no-fappers might say. So if you weren't exclusively and overwhelmingly attracted to IRL children around/after puberty, then any loli hentai you fap to in adulthood is probably due to reason 2 above or maybe because you really like a particular set of characters (emotional connection, waifu status, etc)
4-Participating in a taboo can be exciting in a fictional/controlled environment, even if you have no desire or drive to seek it out for real. Like doing heinous things in video games
5-Some lolicons are bonafide pedophiles/predators, we know this anecdotally. But what the anecdotes don't tell is what percentage of lolicons are diagnosed pedophiles. No study has been done to calculate the percentage or incidence rate. We don't have evidence that the overlap is 100%, 80%, 50%, 20%, etc. Also, based on the offender data we do have, the number one thing to look out for is antisociality (the clinical definition, not just being a loner). So if someone faps to loli but isn't clinically antisocial, then it might just be a preference in masturbatory aid and not a deeper desire to prey on IRL children