>>58434353then, after you know you've caught him in your net, go a day without doing any of that
not necessarily deliberately ignoring him or anything, just no compliments or affection
he'll start getting desperate, trying anything and everything to please you
when he's well and truly at the end of his rope, nearly on the verge of breaking down, get him to pleasure you in some way
when you've been pushed over the edge - but he specifically hasn't - give him a 'good boy' and other forms of affection, maybe even a first kiss if you want to hold out that long
that will end up fully breaking him in, he'll start associating the euphoria of approval with you pleasure, but not his
still give him pleasure of course, it'd be cruel not to, but you gotta train him that your pleasure is paramount
