>>58775974If you're torn between the two, run a coinflip or some other A/B randomizer, with the rule in mind that you'll HAVE to accept and follow through with either outcome.
But don't, actually; instead, think about how the result makes you feel when paired with the above rule, compared to the alternative.
A bit satisfied? Then sure, accept it.
A bit disappointed? Go with the other. No shame in it.
