>>37513589it depends
no one has control over the facial structure or body type they're born with, so bullying someone over that is a bitch move (though some self-care in regards to your skin, hair, clothing and presentation can go a long way in making you look better)
but you 100% have control over having or not having your own gravitational pull, if you're attracting asteroids to my vicinity I have the right to judge you for it