>>51986532>Anyone done anything like this, how did you feel after?won't confirm but it's totes fine c: the two big concerns are physical safety and data leaks. and for how you feel after, that's dictated by their attitude towards both you and sex.
coco's sleeping with viewers guide:
A) physical safety!
1. location: unexpected visits from others as well as planted recorders can be scary! switch the location on him last minute to somewhere nearby to not inconvenience him. be the first one in the room and don't give him a room key. (i recommend throwing the room keys out the window or down a vent once you both get in the room. you REALLY don't want him to be able to contact his friends or reenter the room with them)
2. deadman traps: a good way to discourage them from getting too rowdy is to tell others where you are. you can also do things like scheduling tweets with his government ID (require this in advance ALWAYS) and explaining the situation. if you're not in a state to delete those tweets later, then their life is over <3 also have someone call the cops explaining what happened if you don't report back to them. tell him about the deadman traps you've set, but make clear you're leaving the details of some of them out!
3. force. you're VERY unlikely to be able to physically outdance this person. mace won't help if he lands a good jab first. don't count on this!
4. meet him at a public coffee shop or similar, then take him to the place you arranged from there. don't reveal the final location in advance, and don't let him write it down or use his phone after he knows where it'll be.
B) data leaks!
1. best thing you can do is use the hotel's bag check to secure all his electronics. let him have the bag check claim ticket so he can get it on his way out. (this is another reason it's important for you to get in the room first! helps avoid planted tech)
2. if he wants pics/vids of the visit, take them on YOUR phone/cam. leave them only on your device until after the visit and you've reviewed them. don't upload or back them up before then. DON'T let him use your unlocked phone, or if you do, watch him like a hawk.
3. it's best to discuss what they're looking to get from the visit beforehand as far as digital permanence goes.
C) attitude!
this is totes up to you to discuss with him. be nice to him, help him feel comfortable with his understanding of your limits so your deadman traps don't kill him a few hours later. use safewords (the stoplight color system are pretty universal) to communicate when to pause or stop play. also i'd rec asking them to leave cash instead of digital transfers. it's usually more comfortable for them as well since there's no awkward digital trail for them to worry about. have them give this to you before the visit is over. also! make sure you condition him to NOT TRY TO HAGGLE / PUSH FOR MORE early! ideally make him understand this before you even meet
(THIS GUIDE IS VERY INCOMPLETE AND I MAY HAVE SAID DUMB SHIT, I'M RUSHING GETTING READY FOR A CHARITY STREAM RN, THESE ARE JUST SOME OF MANY THINGS TO CONSIDER)
