>>82993917Because Goslings know they are trapped in an unwinnable position. They are not charismatic or attractive enough to be chads but are too unconfident, morally upstanding, and kind to be bad boys. They know they are stuck only being useful to the woman they admire at best, and invisible to or even hated by the woman at worst. And yet, they are too loyal to give her up. In another time, in another age, some women might have appreciated this loyalty, but our current age sees it as creepy or desperate. This is the curse we bear.