>>17867979i'm hoping this is the case and i know people who fall on her side were not good friends to begin with but it's an unnecessary stress (as you can tell, since i'm running over every possible worst case scenario). my hope is that she is sane enough to not to try to drag this in public if she gets turned down but i have honestly had a very bad track record of enforcing boundaries, thinking a person will react like a normal human, only for them to completely erupt and try to drag other people into the mess. hopefully she is bright enough to realize i have mutually assured destruction on her